Bid it out.

I can't help myself. Remember that whole scenario on auto insurance I posted a few weeks back? Original insurance company got back to us and said they were going to up our auto insurance by $1,000 a year because of the one extra ticket that pushed us over the limit. This last week, we finally got around to bidding out. Insurance company #2 took a look at our driving records through our license identification, and not only are we not going up by $1,000, but we are reducing our premium by $600 LESS THAN what we were already paying!!! Can you believe that? How can these companies be so different? Anyhow, we've immediately switched - and canceled the original provider. I'd been with that provider for 25 years, and felt like they were looking out for me. What a big mistake! Another case of you gotta look out for yourself, cause no one else will. I encourage everyone to routinely shop around. It's your money. And I"m all about keeping as much for my family as I can. It will be nice to send them to college someday. Maybe I'll be able to now.

2003 VW Jetta Wolfsburg 1.8T, one of the causes of my insurance dilemma. And she looks so innocent, doesn't she??? (That's not a Wolfsburg edition in the photo, but you get the idea.)

Dear to my heart.

It's finally time to share a mission that is near and dear to the Queen B's heart. And I'm not talking about King B. I'm talking about the adoption of older children. Our oldest child was adopted at the age of 11, actually 12 by the time it finalized. We adopted from the foster care system in our state. Many people in our country still don't realize the great numbers of children lost in the foster care system here in the United States. These kids are "legal" orphans rather than the traditional images we have of kids whose parents and family are deceased - or given up by an unwed teen mother. These kids most often have birth parents with an inability to provide in some way - and yes, perhaps alcoholic, drug abusers or mental health cases. Most of these children have already suffered a multitude of life losses before they ever reach the system. Then they bounce from one foster situation to another - becoming more wounded and emotionally damaged. At that point, they have so many challenges that the odds against a successful adoption are high. So, the sooner kids from the system can be integrated and adopted into a forever family, the better their chance at a successful family life.

Popular Christian music artist, Mark Schultz (that's Mark in the photo), was adopted as an infant from the foster system in our home state. In fact, he was adopted through the same agency we used for our adoption. He also served in a mission to Mexico, ministering to orphans. He felt called to do more and is biking across America to raise funds for the cause of providing for orphans and widows. He is keeping a blog of his journey and has posted videos as part of his daily log of events. It is really touching - and you'll learn much about this cause if you check it out further. For any who feel even somewhat called or interested, I encourage you to check into your local resources. Don't assume that you can't afford it financially, because there are subsidies and benefits available. In our case, all legal expenses were covered - as well as a lot of other expenses we had relating to the adoption. In our state, the children receive medical coverage through the state too. And if you are seriously considering adoption, please consider adopting a child from here in the United States. These kids are in our own backyard - and are often being overlooked for infant adoptions from other countries. I feel passionate about any adoption, but especially about adoption of kids that are being lost to the system.

Adopting an older, hurt child is not an easy thing to do. But it's extremely rewarding. And we feel very blessed. It has been an awesome experience to see our daughter grow and heal and become such an integral part of our family - now a beautiful young lady with much potential and a life of opportunity ahead.